Frequently Asked Breakup Questions
People ask me all the time if there’s a magic length of time to fully and completely get over your ex. Unfortunately, there isn’t. How quickly (or slowly) you move on depends on how serious you are about getting over it, and if you’re willing to do the work.
That said, let me also share this:
I know that having to get over your ex probably isn’t what you really want. It’s very possible that you did NOT want the breakup to happen, nor did you plan on reading a website one day about how to get over it.
Most people don’t fall in love with someone, while simultaneously planning on how they will get over it if that person breaks their heart. (I certainly did not.)
After my breakup with my ex-fiance, I was devastated. I could hardly get out of bed in the morning, let alone get anything done all day. Late one night, I woke up to the words, “The rest of your life depends on this.” The next morning, I peeled myself out of bed and began writing the breakup recovery system that I still teach today.
Depending on where you’re at with your breakup, you may or may not still be in this much pain. I’ve had thousands of women use my programs right after a breakup, (when they can hardly get a sentence out without crying their eyes out), and hundreds of others women who found me years later. In fact, a 67-year-old woman came to me once because she’d never healed from her husband leaving her for a younger woman 25 years ago. After using my program, she told me it was the first things that had ever brought her real relief.
The thing is, it’s never too late to fully heal. It’s never to late to “beat your broken heart before it beats you,” as I often say. You just have to decide to do it.
Take your power back and start to fully heal today with my Breakup Recovery System.
Like I mentioned above, having to get over your ex can be a scary thought — especially if you didn’t want to breakup in the first place. Getting over your ex can also seem IMPOSSIBLE to you right now, considering how much he hurt you (or how much you may still love him.)
Instead, consider that “getting over your ex” isn’t about “getting over” anything all all. Getting over your ex would mean that you’re right back on the same level you were before you met, as if he were nothing more than just a speed bump.
What if (now just stay with me here)… What if, instead, you learned how to get “above and beyond” your ex, not just simply “over” him? What would it look like if, after all the dust settles, you became so strong and so wise that you never, EVER settled for anything less than you deserve… ever again?
This was my commitment to myself after my ex-fiance broke up with me: To never, ever let myself do anything or be with anyone that didn’t serve my highest and best good. Like many people, I stayed in that relationship for much longer than I should have. I let my needs go, and I ignored my gut. Essentially, I was neglecting myself. My damaged self-worth and suffering self-esteem were proof.
What I needed next was not to “get over my ex.” What I needed next was to create a revolution in my life, so that I would never again neglect myself nor put my own needs last. When I started coaching other women, and learning that they, too, had fallen victim to the same self-abandoning situations… I could see clearly that I was not the only one in need of a revolution.
Thousands of women just like you have already decided to stop trying to “get over their exes,” and, instead, to get far “above and beyond” them. What started as a revolution in my own life, has now become a revolution for many — a Breakup Revolution to be exact.
The Breakup Revolution is a members-only community exclusively for women who’ve decided to get “above and beyond” their exes by using my Breakup Recovery System. Each of these woman have decided to become stronger (and wiser!) as a result of their breakup. We invite you to join us. Click here for more information.
Who knows… You might be the next woman I talk to who says, “Thank heavens we broke up. I’m SO much better off now than I was back then!”
Every woman who’s ever experienced a breakup has, at some point, asked themselves, “Will I ever find someone again?”
This is exactly what Tiffany asked herself after her husband of 28 years left her for a woman half her age. When I first met Tiffany, she’d been single again for about year. Ever since her divorce, Tiffany’s pain had consumed her. She’d quit teaching yoga (which she used to love to do), and she was hardly leaving the house in fear that she’d run into her ex and his new girlfriend.
Tiffany made a commitment to start using my 8-step system to help her heal her past and create lasting love in her life. To be honest, she was anything but hopeful… basically quitting several times throughout the process. Thankfully, Tiffany’s will-power set in (after a few pep-talks from yours truly), and she completed the program.
Whitney started teaching yoga again, and her life was beginning to improve. A few weeks later, a new student showed up in her class — a man she’d never met, but had been her neighbor of hers for about as long as she was married. She soon learned that this man had lost his wife to cancer about a year prior — and that he, too, had been struggling to heal himself all year.
Tiffany and Bob started dating. I’ll never forget the day she called to tell me he had left a love letter on her car. Inside the letter, Bob told her of a dream he’d had the night before. His wife came to him in his dream and said, “It’s ok. You can let go of me know. It’s time for you to go love someone else.”
I can barely write that story without bursting into tears. Both Tiffany AND Bob thought for certain that love would never find them again, but it did — and today, they’re engaged to be married.
If there’s ONE thing I want you to take away from reading this website, it’s this:
Trust the process. The rest will fall into place.
For more information about the 8-step system that Tiffany used to find her soulmate, click here.
If you’re going through a breakup, dating is probably the last thing on your mind. You’ve just lost someone you love, someone you thought you’d spend the rest of your life with, or someone you’d already married. While dating again might not be your priority right now, as some point, you’ll start asking yourself, “Am I ready to start dating again?”
Well, what I’m about to tell you may surprise you. You see, I don’t believe in being “ready” to date again, but I do believe in being prepared. If you’ve taken the time to truly get over your breakup and heal your heart, then you’re already ahead of most people. Learning how to become a better person (and partner) as a result of your breakup is the first step in preparing yourself to start dating again.
(Take that first step right here.)
The next step in becoming prepared to start dating again is to master these 4 keys to successful dating:
- How to keep yourself “happy no matter what” while you’re dating…
- How to keep yourself emotionally safe while dating…
- How to powerfully set the “sexual pace” of a relationship…
- And how to handle your fears when you find someone new.
With these 4 skills “up your skirt,” you’ll be manifesting someone special in no time.
Get fully prepared to start dating again with this 4-step course.
Program & Order Questions:
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