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Happy New Year my badass friend!

By now you know I really love that word- Badass.

I use it all over the place. On this blog, on Facebook- it’s even in the tagline of my book.

It’s not the most feminine word, I know. But this is exactly why I use it so much- we as women need to tap into a more aggressive, self-assured energy that is typically exuded by men.

This aggressive, self- assured energy is what you need to kick your ex to the curb once and for all.

It’s the energy that you need to rise above the blame, the regret and the sorrow that you feel as a result of your breakup.

And it’s the energy that you need to move on with your big, beautiful life.

Remember when you were a cheerleader? (Or when you weren’t and had to listen to their annoying chants anyhow.)

There’s a reoccurring song that cheerleaders sing that goes a little something like this:

“Be Aggressive! B. E. Aggressive!”

Well, ladies, it’s time to be aggressive. It’s time to not let anyone run your life or your emotions anymore except you.

So today, this second day of 2013, tap into your Inner Badass.

Some call it personal power, some call it inner strength.

Your inner badass is this power, and it is this strength. You have a well of personal power and inner strength inside of you.

All you have to do is tap into it.

Tap into your inner badass and stay connected with it for the rest of 2013. Make it your mission over the course of the next year to not let anyone or anything take away your power or your strength ever again.

To a badass year full of power, strength, and unlimited badass energy.

So…What are YOUR thoughts? Please leave a comment below! I can’t wait to read it and reply back to you.


Ellen Smoak

Author | Speaker | Relationship Coach

P.S. Get my free video series “How to beat your broken heart BEFORE it beats YOU!” for free by clicking here. In this series, you’ll learn: How to know if your ex is your soulmate, The biggest mistake most people make to get over their ex, and How to stop thinking about your ex all the time, move on, and be free! Get your free videos right here.





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