Ellen understands how devastating the pain of a break-up can be, and she has brilliantly illuminated a path to heal your heart, find your self-confidence, and rebuild your life.

Dr. John Gray, Bestselling author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus

Ellen Smoak has unlocked the formula for getting over your ex and on with your life in her sensational book and online course, Breakups Are A Bitch, But Getting Over It Doesn’t Have To Be. Through this system, Ellen’s sage wisdom is delivered in such a fun and witty way, you feel like you’re being guided from heartache to healing by your best friend. A must-use for anyone who’s ever experienced heartbreak!

Mat Boggs, Co-author of Project Everlasting

Before I found Ellen, I was completely broken, lost and confused. I felt like there was no way I could escape my heart ache, but I knew I couldn’t continue to go down the path of constant hurt. One night, I googled “how to get over heart break” and the first thing I found was Ellen, explaining how to get over it. I automatically felt better knowing there was someone else out there that gone though such tough times, so as quick as I could I bought her program! Now, with Ellen’s guidance, I’ve never looked back. I can hardly believe how much she helped me regain my strength and be able to let go. The things I used to think weren’t possible, Ellen made possible for me! Thank you, Ellen, from the bottom of my heart.

Suzi in Australia | Happily healed with Ellen’s help

Before finding Ellen, I was in a really, really bad place. I first told myself, what’s a book and online program going to do for me? I’ve read Ellen’s book twice now, and I can’t even explain how much it has helped me! I can tell already how much better of a person I am turning out to be. Every part of her book and program has helped me, all the tips and tools! Even my therapist was impressed with how much I healed with Ellen’s help. This was the best program for me at the time, and I’m so thankful to Ellen for giving it to us. I can truly say it was such a relief!

LeeAnn L. in Pittsburg, PA | Healed her heart gracefully with Ellen’s help

I think one of the MOST helpful things in the world when going through a heart-wrenching breakup is knowing that there are others who have gone through similar turmoil, and furthermore that there is light (lots of it!!!) at the end of what feels like a dark and dreary tunnel of breakup hell. Ellen shines the light (literally!) on how to transform what is a seemingly “bad” event in one’s life into a magnificently healing and heart-expanding experience! She illuminates how a simple shift in perspective can not only transform us at the most fundamental levels, but also EMPOWER us to step into the biggest, grandest, loveliest versions of ourselves! If you have suffered any type of heart ache EVER… this book are program are a MUST READ (if you’re up for changing your life, that is). It is undoubtedly my Breakup Bible 🙂 Oh, and P.S. — I might add that as a result of this book I have found the LOVE OF MY LIFE! Need I say more?!!?

Leah D. in San Diego, CA | Just returned from introducing Todd to her family

If you have a broken heart, you must read this book! Ellen will be the best friend you’ve ever had, as she takes you by the hand and shows you how to heal your heart and create the life of your dreams.

Arielle Ford | Best-selling author, The Soulmate Secret

This program like talking to your best girlfriend… and afterwards you’ll feel as if Ellen is just that. A true and honest voice, it speaks of the good, the bad, and the ugly but with encouragement, humor, and love. It gives you hope when you feel like you have none. Ellen guides you through her own personal experiences and helps you realize you’re not alone in your feelings and fears. And all that emotion and fear that you are experiencing? Its normal, and all part of the healing process; a process that will empower you. I felt as if I was holding my best friend’s – crying when I needed to cry and laughing when I needed to laugh. Insightful. True. Heartwarming. Hilarious. It’s a must read for anyone going through heartbreak.

Sarah C. in Charleston, SC | Empowered to find the next love of her life

Ellen’s course is like having a glass of wine and big hug from a friend. I love – she sounds like the wise girlfriend who’s by your side to wipe those tears away and make you laugh, even when you don’t think you can! You actually FEEL better reading the book. She walks you through the whole process with love, compassion, humor and just enough tough love. Great program, and I highly recommend it to anyone looking to get over an ex and on with her life!

LeeAnn F. in Chicago, IL 

This program gets RIGHT to the point. And the teacher, Ellen Smoak, has a great way of making that point. A little sassy, and a lot straightforward, this is THE system you need to pick up if you are in a life transition where you feel overwhelmed, out of control, depressed and/or just lost. It’s certainly written about relationships, but it’s all about taking back your power and being the best version of yourself FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE! She understands the crazy hell of being in a bad relationship and has been there herself (the real deal), but she won’t let you wallow. Take your broken heart to Ellen and let her shine some light on the broken places. You won’t regret it.

Paula N. in Tampa, FL

Ellen, I just bought your book. I’m on Chapter 8 of the book, and I have to say… This is by far the BEST breakup book I’ve ever read! You are so entertaining, funny, sassy, and direct to the point. Thank you for saving me!

Ann M. | College Professor. 

This is the love advice I’ve really been needing to hear. The advice found in these pages is just like hearing it from my fun, sassy, honest friend who has experienced the same pain I’m going through, and she’s come out even better for it on the other side. Thank you Ellen for writing this system, and for getting my life back on track! I will forever thank you for helping me “beat my broken heart before it has beat me!

Taylor M. in New Mexico, AR